tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25336737.post4450785537905184670..comments2023-10-28T18:28:59.340+11:00Comments on I don't do mornings!!!: Hindsight is great..after the fact...Cazzie!!!http://www.blogger.com/profile/13856029137337148466noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25336737.post-69025951210326782202007-09-06T11:53:00.000+10:002007-09-06T11:53:00.000+10:00Cazzie: Good people such as yourself are "other p...Cazzie: Good people such as yourself are "other people" oriented, rather than self oriented. And altho I agree that all the great spiritual teachers have taught to love others as we would ourselves, or even to put others before ourselves - I have always personally added this addendum: <B>EXCEPT</B> those that refuse to help themselves! Why? Well the way I figure it, the Devil has already claimed 'em and I need to get the heck outta the way! (O_O)Pathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03435819346686981766noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25336737.post-7194611825840514072007-09-06T06:14:00.000+10:002007-09-06T06:14:00.000+10:00*HUGS**HUGS*LanternLighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13752310519559752471noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25336737.post-86772186031288180952007-09-06T02:27:00.000+10:002007-09-06T02:27:00.000+10:00"Feel whoever you want,and say what you feel,becau..."Feel whoever you want,<BR/>and say what you feel,<BR/>because those who mind, <BR/>don't matter,<BR/>and those who matter, <BR/>don't mind." <BR/><BR/>That is so true. I will now officially replace my old personal slogan which was from the Woody Allen movie, Zelig..<BR/><BR/>"Life, <BR/>is a cruel meaningless existance,<BR/>all I can tell you is Save String."<BR/><BR/>and one from Groucho Marx,<BR/>"You're only as old as the woman you feel"<BR/><BR/>and one from Oscar Wilde<BR/>"It is absurd to divide people into good and bad. People are either charming or tedious."Romeo Morningwoodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10826410608415260786noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25336737.post-32658718128985355042007-09-05T17:24:00.000+10:002007-09-05T17:24:00.000+10:00OHHH Thankee Cazzie... a turd by any other name wo...OHHH Thankee Cazzie... a turd by any other name would smell as sweet...tee heeMiddle Childhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09962830669606760640noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25336737.post-31070180868962430962007-09-04T16:38:00.000+10:002007-09-04T16:38:00.000+10:00FC&F, I love what you say here, and I can so under...FC&F, I love what you say here, and I can so understand it too.<BR/><BR/>Mom, thanks for the kind words.. I am soaking them all up :)<BR/><BR/>Aidan, I am especially taking on board what you say here..and you hit the nail right on the head. You and Stace are so awesome!Cazzie!!!https://www.blogger.com/profile/13856029137337148466noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25336737.post-16056899432524123312007-09-04T13:36:00.000+10:002007-09-04T13:36:00.000+10:00Main thing dont stop trying to help people, get a ...Main thing dont stop trying to help people, get a bit wiser from the situation, be aware of the warning signs, and back off when they get too clingy...<BR/><BR/>You should blow your own trumpet you are an uncommonly nice and genuine person!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25336737.post-76910720620041078052007-09-04T11:58:00.000+10:002007-09-04T11:58:00.000+10:00Jesus said to love thy neighbor as thyself. We oft...Jesus said to love thy neighbor as thyself. We often forget that before we can love others we must first love ourself. I think that means we do need to tend to our own needs first. Then we can be there to help our friends.Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15708010694158542241noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25336737.post-47695789350372719572007-09-04T01:30:00.000+10:002007-09-04T01:30:00.000+10:00I have the same problem of putting my friend in ne...I have the same problem of putting my friend in need first, then my family suffers, well Bat, anyway. I find myself telling this friend secrets to try to make them feel better then the friend turning their back on me. I'm learning to just listen then walk away, it's not like my friends listen to my advice. <BR/><BR/>The turd was funny.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25336737.post-60624225664571351782007-09-03T22:14:00.000+10:002007-09-03T22:14:00.000+10:00Keshi ty for the huggsEric, I am so happy you came...Keshi ty for the huggs<BR/><BR/>Eric, I am so happy you came over again. Your poetry is always food for thought..and I like that.<BR/><BR/>MJD, thankyou for the kind words. I appreciate it very much. I learn from what other people say here..and it is nice to see how things are reflected on a global level.<BR/><BR/>Andrew... I can follow what you say very closely and I totaly unerstand what your point is. I like that..because it takes other people to make sense and bring things into awareness for me. I am a good listener and a good reader too. <BR/><BR/><BR/>Farmwife two... haha, thanks for the laugh... haha.Cazzie!!!https://www.blogger.com/profile/13856029137337148466noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25336737.post-66053113875327113592007-09-03T21:59:00.000+10:002007-09-03T21:59:00.000+10:00He's very cute!!!!In my world can we switch the wo...He's very cute!!!!<BR/><BR/>In my world can we switch the word friend's in that post to Mother?? <BR/><BR/>S.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25336737.post-52227776271663497562007-09-03T20:29:00.000+10:002007-09-03T20:29:00.000+10:00I am a strong believer in 'the self' must be right...I am a strong believer in 'the self' must be right before anything else. If 'the self' is right and things go wrong, it is a fault with the other selves. This flows down to not doing things you don't want to just to please people. You are are doing the wrong thing by yourself.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25336737.post-52891726330561196202007-09-03T19:19:00.000+10:002007-09-03T19:19:00.000+10:00Cazzie,What a great post and a good reminder. Some...Cazzie,<BR/>What a great post and a good reminder. Sometimes these misleading and manipulative folks can be very seductive with their wants and needs. Of course, "Friends look out for each other, they do not use others to get to where they want to be." Thanks, for the friendship turd. I hope that your day is good and spent with family and friends not users.Mollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06588693337401747260noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25336737.post-5914631493536456272007-09-03T18:45:00.000+10:002007-09-03T18:45:00.000+10:00Cazzie!!!Love thyself and familly first!then love ...Cazzie!!!<BR/><BR/>Love thyself and familly first!<BR/><BR/>then love your friends. Don't let whoever it was harm your love for people, but yes, you must do what you said in this post.<BR/><BR/>It's your personality that makes people want to know what you have to say. Thank you for being you, Cazzie. That's what I like, ever since you were so kind to my prof, Michelle that one day a long time ago when she was getting harrassed on her blog, and you chimed in about the angels of your familly. I wasn't even a blogger at the time, just an observer. But you kindness stands out. Be well!eric1313https://www.blogger.com/profile/13807078704660045859noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25336737.post-50288950287649205182007-09-03T14:57:00.000+10:002007-09-03T14:57:00.000+10:00Caz :) HUGGGGGGGGGZ!**Friends look out for each ot...Caz :) HUGGGGGGGGGZ!<BR/><BR/>**Friends look out for each other, they do not use others to get to where they want to be<BR/><BR/>I agree. Whoever who used ur heart to do that, is going to find Karma coming back in doubles.<BR/><BR/>btw check my blog and see if u hv ever been to that place...<BR/><BR/>Keshi.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.com